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The Time Traveler's Wife

Parents guide · ClearAge age 14+ · Official M

Movie 2009 107 min Drama, Romance, Fantasy Checked by Dan S · 6 Oct 2026
Official Rating M ClearAge 14+

What we flagged

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Violence
Mild
Sex and Nudity
Moderate
Frightening
Mild
Language
Moderate

Our take

The Time Traveler's Wife is a romance about a man who disappears through time without warning and often arrives without clothes. Kissing, talk about sex, and his unexpected nudity are part of the relationship story. Language is moderate, and he says he got drunk trying to trigger a jump. The film also carries a quiet fear of separation and loss. We put it at around 14 and up.

Uplifting themes

Love here means patience, honesty, and showing up even when timing is impossible. The film values choosing each other again and again. Soft, clear heart under the sci-fi hook Clare and Henry try to build a life around a problem neither asked for. They stumble, then keep talking. Not perfect partners, but they keep trying It can open a chat about genetic conditions as metaphor and about consent when power in a relationship feels uneven. Light science, heavier feelings. Romance first

Story (may spoil tone)

Due to a genetic disorder, handsome librarian Henry DeTamble involuntarily zips through time, appearing at various moments in the life of his true love, the beautiful artist Clare Abshire.

What we flagged

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Violence
Mild
Sex and Nudity
Moderate
Frightening
Mild
Language
Moderate

Details

Violence Mild Someone asks if Henry has handled a gun, and there is a dark joke about…

Someone asks if Henry has handled a gun, and there is a dark joke about a killing spree. The threat stays mostly in talk and hunting atmosphere. Not an action film, but weapons are not imaginary

Language Moderate You will hear the s-word, hell, a-word, and son of a b-word when people…

You will hear the s-word, hell, a-word, and son of a b-word when people are spooked or angry. It is moderate, not rare, and not a nonstop f-word track. Adult stress talk more than comedy swearing

Sex / nudity Moderate Time travel leaves Henry naked in unfamiliar places. He and his partner…

Time travel leaves Henry naked in unfamiliar places. He and his partner also kiss and talk openly about sex; the guide presents this as part of an adult romance

Drugs / alcohol Mild Wine is offered at dinner, and Henry admits he got drunk trying to forc…

Wine is offered at dinner, and Henry admits he got drunk trying to force a jump. Drinking is part of coping, not a party montage. Mild but clear

Frightening Mild Sudden disappearances and waking up lost can feel unsettling, especiall…

Sudden disappearances and waking up lost can feel unsettling, especially when bodies arrive with no clothes or warning. The tone stays romantic rather than horror. Sensitive tweens may still find the jumps eerie

Grief / bereavement Mild The couple lives with the fear of separation and losing people out of o…

The couple lives with the fear of separation and losing people out of order. The grief is part of the romance rather than a single funeral scene

Flashing lights We have not confirmed whether this version contains flashing lights.

We have not confirmed whether this version contains flashing lights.

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Talk after watching

  • Clare waits years for Henry to appear. What does healthy waiting look like in a relationship?
  • Henry cannot control when he vanishes. How would you want a partner to handle a secret that big?