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Two young people fall in love while both are carrying family grief. Remember Me also brings in a sister's bullying, a past violent death and talk of a sibling's suicide, so its sadness runs deeper than the romance suggests. A fight, strong language and a discreet love scene add to the adult feel. We would wait until US PG-13.
Uplifting themes
The film values forgiveness, honest conversation, and making time for the people you love. It also shows how pain can be carried in silence Tyler loves his little sister and tries to repair his family, even when he makes bad choices. Ally is warm and supportive
Story (may spoil tone)
Still reeling from a heartbreaking family event and his parents' subsequent divorce, Tyler Hawkins discovers a fresh lease on life when he meets Ally Craig, a gregarious beauty who witnessed her mother's death. But as the couple draws closer, the fallout from their separate tragedies jeopardizes their love.
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Violence A street scuffle leads to a police arrest and a rough beating, and a pa…
A street scuffle leads to a police arrest and a rough beating, and a past shooting is recalled in flashback. Anger and rage keep causing trouble for a young man
Language Some strong language comes up in arguments and a tense confrontation, i…
Some strong language comes up in arguments and a tense confrontation, including a couple of f-words, and milder swears like the s-word and a-word appear throughout
Sex / nudity A love scene between the leads is discreet, with kissing and bare skin…
A love scene between the leads is discreet, with kissing and bare skin before it fades out. A few crude jokes about sex between friends come up in conversation
Drugs / alcohol College-age characters drink at bars and parties, smoke cigarettes, and…
College-age characters drink at bars and parties, smoke cigarettes, and one character comes home drunk. Alcohol and smoking are casual and common
Frightening Tense family confrontations and flashbacks to a violent loss are sudden…
Tense family confrontations and flashbacks to a violent loss are sudden and distressing. They are short, but they stay with you
Self-harm / suicide A sibling's suicide is a central loss in the family, remembered through…
A sibling's suicide is a central loss in the family, remembered through grief and anger. It is not shown in detail, and the film does not present it as an answer
Child peril / abuse Ally was a young child present at a violent crime, and flashbacks recal…
Ally was a young child present at a violent crime, and flashbacks recall it. Tyler's little sister is also left isolated and in distress, though the focus stays emotional
Bullying / discrimination Tyler's little sister is teased and left out at school, and the film sh…
Tyler's little sister is teased and left out at school, and the film shows how much it hurts her. Tyler's protective anger leads to trouble
Mental health The film shows deep sadness and anger in a family after a loss, and one…
The film shows deep sadness and anger in a family after a loss, and one character copes by acting out. Talking and caring for each other begin to help
Grief / bereavement Two families are shaped by a death in childhood and a sibling's suicide…
Two families are shaped by a death in childhood and a sibling's suicide, and the sorrow is present in almost every scene. Sad flashbacks and quiet moments may be hard for teens who have lost someone
Flashing lights We have not confirmed whether this version contains flashing lights.
We have not confirmed whether this version contains flashing lights.
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Talk after watching
- Tyler and Ally each carry a loss from their family. How can people support each other when the sadness is that big?
- Tyler's anger gets him into trouble even when he is protecting someone. What would you do differently when you feel that angry?
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