Skip to content
CLEARAGE Parent notes on movies
← All movies
Blue Jay poster

Blue Jay

Parents guide · ClearAge age 15+ · Official NR

Movie 2016 80 min Drama, Romance Checked by Dan S · 21 Oct 2026
Official Rating NR ClearAge 15+

No Australia rating available — showing United States

What we flagged

View all categories
Violence
Mild
Sex and Nudity
Mild
Language
Strong

Our take

Jim and Amanda bump into each other at a liquor store and spend a day replaying high-school love in black and white. They kiss and clearly care for each other, while language turns sharp whenever jealousy or old hurt surfaces. The script deals with a past pregnancy loss, handled in conversation. We land at US NR and up because the emotional stakes and steady strong language suit mid-teens more than younger kids

Uplifting themes

Honesty about mistakes and second chances runs through their day together. They learn whether nostalgia helps or hurts Jim and Amanda are flawed but kind to each other by the end. Their choices model talking through regret instead of pretending it away

Story (may spoil tone)

Meeting by chance when they return to their tiny California hometown, two former high-school sweethearts reflect on their shared past.

What we flagged

View all categories

Violence
Mild
Sex and Nudity
Mild
Language
Strong

Details

Violence Mild Amanda mentions beating up a rival in a past job fight. Nothing violent…

Amanda mentions beating up a rival in a past job fight. Nothing violent plays out on screen in the present-day story

Language Strong Jim and Amanda swear in close, black-and-white dialogue as old feelings…

Jim and Amanda swear in close, black-and-white dialogue as old feelings return. The f-word shows up in arguments, jokes, and drunk banter

Sex / nudity Mild They kiss several times and flirt about romance, with one night togethe…

They kiss several times and flirt about romance, with one night together implied. A tape of their younger selves adds sweet, non-explicit intimacy

Grief / bereavement Moderate Both carry pain from a pregnancy loss and years apart. The film keeps c…

Both carry pain from a pregnancy loss and years apart. The film keeps circling what might have been if they had stayed together

Flashing lights We have not confirmed whether this version contains flashing lights.

We have not confirmed whether this version contains flashing lights.

Add a watch note

What did your family do? Required
Kids in the room Optional
ClearAge age feel Optional

0/280

Talk after watching

  • They pretend to be strangers on a tape to feel young again. When does nostalgia help, and when does it trap you?
  • Each of them moved on but never fully let go. What would you need to hear from an ex to trust a fresh start?