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Ghosts of Girlfriends Past

Parents guide · ClearAge age 13+ · Official M

Movie 2009 115 min Romance, Comedy, Fantasy Checked by Dan S · 23 Oct 2026
Official Rating M ClearAge 13+

What we flagged

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Sex and Nudity
Moderate
Frightening
Mild
Language
Mild

Our take

Ghosts of Girlfriends Past is a glossy wedding-weekend comedy with a lot of talk about casual sex, exes, and bedroom conquests. Language stays mostly at hell, damn, the s-word, and b-word rather than a wall of f-words. Comic ghost visits and a lonely funeral vision add mild eeriness, not horror. We land at 13 and up because the sexual banter is constant even when the tone stays light

Uplifting themes

The film pushes honesty, loyalty, and choosing one person over endless flings. Connor only grows when he owns the hurt he caused Jenny and Paul show steadier care than Connor does for most of the film. Connor starts selfish and only slowly earns a better example

Story (may spoil tone)

Celebrity photographer Connor Mead lives life in the fast lane, committed to lifelong bachelorhood and simultaneous relationships with multiple women. On the eve of his younger brother Paul's wedding, Connor's mockery of love proves a real buzz-kill for everyone - including his childhood crush, Jenny, the one woman who always seemed immune to his considerable charms. Later that night, he gets a wake-up call from the ghost of his late Uncle Wayne, the hard-partying, legendary ladies' man who was Connor's mentor. Uncle Wayne has an urgent message which he delivers through three ghosts who guide Connor on an eye-opening tour of his romantic past, present and future. Along the way, they attempt to discern whether he will ever be able to change his ways -- and if there is any hope of him finding true love.

What we flagged

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Sex and Nudity
Moderate
Frightening
Mild
Language
Mild

Details

Language Mild Hell, damn, the s-word, a-word, and b-word show up in arguments and wed…

Hell, damn, the s-word, a-word, and b-word show up in arguments and wedding chaos. Strong f-words are not the texture of this comedy

Sex / nudity Moderate Casual sex talk runs through the whole film, from bridesmaid hookups to…

Casual sex talk runs through the whole film, from bridesmaid hookups to coatroom and plane-sex jokes. Kissing and make-outs appear, but there is no graphic sex scene

Drugs / alcohol Mild Wedding drinking and talk of being drunk sit in the party atmosphere. A…

Wedding drinking and talk of being drunk sit in the party atmosphere. A smoke-break line turns up with an old hookup story

Frightening Mild Ghost guides show Connor his romantic past and future in a Christmas Ca…

Ghost guides show Connor his romantic past and future in a Christmas Carol style. The tone stays comic, so the eeriness is light

Grief / bereavement Mild Uncle Wayne appears as a ghost mentor, and a lonely funeral vision warn…

Uncle Wayne appears as a ghost mentor, and a lonely funeral vision warns Connor about dying alone. Loss is used for a wake-up call more than deep mourning

Flashing lights We have not confirmed whether this version contains flashing lights.

We have not confirmed whether this version contains flashing lights.

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Talk after watching

  • Connor treats dating like a scoreboard. What does respect look like when you are interested in someone?
  • Ghosts force him to face how his choices hurt people. Can someone really change after years of treating love casually?